Lovestory:How Do You Know When He Loves You?

How do you know when he Loves You?
Before you decide he is the one, you ought to know if you know he loves you. It is true he tells you he Loves you but how do you know or dosen't it matter to you.
I had a Love discussion with Lady X about her man, we got to a point i asked her if she knows he loves her.
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Lady X smiled and said she dosent believe these things that all men are the same.
I said to Lady X if you do not know about his love for you why do you want to be with him?
As expected she didn't want to hear any of my love sermons.
Now, you have meet him but you do not care if he loves you because he has some cash to throw around, or you are too old or you are doing follow follow because you want to belong to the group called dating or girlfriend.
Lets get it straight that the love which is spoken about here is not that which has butterflies in your stomach or makes your leg pop-up when you kiss, it is the kind that sacrifices, that shows strength in weakness, that which is tendered and watered daily.
The few points i will mention is not a universal opinion but will help you know
Firstly, it starts with you. You will connect with his soul. At this point there is a deliberate, natural effort to know what goes on in his heart and head. It is not always but sometimes you feel what he feels when it is right or wrong even when you see him or not.
He dosen't pamper you always, when you are wrong he chastizes you not beat you up.
He tells you his jealousy either directly or indirectly because he wants you to know.
He provides you with all your needs not wants. He dosen't spend like the man gunning for the cookies.
He also wants his woman to be capable.
He gets mad at you but never stays mad at you.
He listens to you but he is not your puppet(mugu).
He cares deeply about every little details from your smile, to what you eat and wear.
Though this not limited to these, this is only a guide. Everywoman should be sensitive enough to know if he loves her or not.